April 3

Training for Osceola County foster parents – April , 2014

Tonight I had the pleasure of speaking to a wonderful group of foster parents at Osceola’s Children’s Home Society in Kissimmee, Florida. What a caring and dedicated group of people they are!

I felt so blessed to share my story with them and review important warning signs/grooming behaviors to understand. Kids in the foster care system can sometimes be at risk for falling prey to predators who seek vulnerable victims. We engaged in some nice discussion about how to talk to children of varying ages about safe touch, what grooming really looks like, and what to do if suspicions arise. My hope is that each parent walked away with an increased sense of awareness of the prevalence of educator sexual abuse as well as some new strategies for keeping their children safe.


As I drove home, I found myself smiling. I feel surrounded by blessings these days. My divine purpose has been shown to me, and each time I have an opportunity to share my story, I know in my heart that I am exactly where I was meant to be all along. I will never, ever take that for granted.

Hug your kids tonight. Talk with them about everything. Don’t be afraid. If you need help finding the words, contact me – I’d love to help.

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March 29

Speech for Pennsylvania rally – March 19, 2014

People have asked me to share the speech I gave at the rally in Harrisburg, PA last week. While intensely personal, I believe it’s very important that people are aware of the long-term ramifications of educator sexual abuse. So, I have decided to include my speech here:


Pennsylvania Speech


Thank you for allowing me the opportunity to speak today. I want to begin with a question followed by a brief story. By a show of hands, how many of you have children? How would you feel if your child were sitting in a classroom, and her teacher was a known sex offender? I am guessing none of you would want to take that risk and have your child in such close proximity to this type of danger. And yet, by allowing known sex offenders to quietly resign and move on to other school districts, we are doing exactly that. I am here today to urge those of you who have the power, to stop this criminal activity the moment it is discovered, by passing Senate Bill 46, The S.E.S.A.M.E. Act.

I want to share a story with you. There was this middle school girl. She was very lonely, isolated, and in desperate need of a positive male role model in her life. Her middle school science teacher took on that role eagerly, and soon began grooming her for what would become years of control, manipulation, threats, and sexual abuse. After more than 10 years, she was finally able to break away from this man, and she reclaimed her life and freedom. 11 years later, she decided in spite of her fears that she needed to report this abuse to the middle school. The school did nothing. No police report, no police investigation. Nothing. A year following her report she was notified by local police that this teacher had molested two 14 year old girls

What makes this story different from the others you hear about in the news? That middle school girl was me. You are looking at a survivor of educator sexual abuse. This is real. My childhood was filled with pain and torment that no child should ever know.

As a result of this abuse, I have struggled with symptoms of post-traumatic stress disorder, such as anxiety, panic attacks, flashbacks as well as anguishing guilt for not being able to find the courage to make a report sooner. I had great difficulty forming trusting relationships or making healthy life choices for many years. And although I have finally found a wonderful and caring man to share my life, to this day I still experience sexual difficulties, and nearly every time we are intimate, I cry.

I have also grown tremendously. I have discovered this voice of mine that refuses to be silenced any longer. I stand here today representing the thousands of students from Pennsylvania, and the millions of students across the country, who cannot yet find their voices.

In closing, I want to share one of my favorite quotes from Dr. Martin Luther King:

“It may well be that we will have to repent in this generation. Not merely for the vitriolic words and the violent actions of the bad people, but for the appalling silence and indifference of the good people who sit around and say, “Wait on time.”

I’m here to say we cannot wait while one more predator finds his/her way into another classroom and harms another child. Every day that the S.E.S.A.M.E. Act is not in place, children continue to be at risk. I’m raising my voice to say; NO more PASSING the TRASH, PASS the S.E.S.A.M.E. Act! Will you raise your voices with me? NO more PASSING the TRASH, PASS the S.E.S.A.M.E. Act!!!

Thank you very much


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March 28

Rally at the Pennsylvania Capitol – March 19, 2014

It has taken me over a week to process everything I experienced last week in Harrisburg, PA. I was surrounded by intelligent and passionate people whose goal was to keep children safe. To say I was overwhelmed is an understatement. I felt moved, inspired, and at times way out of my league. I often remained silent, simply listening to the others who had greater experience than me in all things political. Now, anyone who has ever met me for even five minutes knows that remaining silent is not a common occurrence for me. However, I was keenly aware that this opportunity was precious, and I needed to absorb every ounce of it.

The purpose of this trip? To implore members of the House of Representatives to pass SB 46 – the Sesame Act. This important bill would prevent what is known as passing the trash, an all-too common practice of allowing educators accused of sexually abusing children to quietly resign and move on to other school districts. The bill will require school administrators to disclose allegations of sexual abuse for each educator given a reference. It will also prohibit confidentiality agreements between the school and the alleged abuser. In addition, the bill will help identify grooming behaviors commonly used by perpetrators and most importantly, would end “passing the trash”.

This bill has been passed unanimously by both the Senate and House Education Committee. There is only one vote which is needed in the House of Representatives in order for the bill to reach the governor’s desk and be signed into law. One vote. I don’t  know if I’ve ever been routing for one vote quite like this before.

My role during the rally was to share some of my story as a survivor of educator sexual abuse and to put a face and voice behind all of the words. I needed to show everyone that this epidemic is very real and affects children for decades. Writing my speech for the rally was a challenge. I knew I needed to be honest and direct with my words. They needed to hear the damage that remaining silent or passing the trash can cause children. Sharing such personal information is never easy. However, I know in my heart that none of this is for me or about me. There are millions of children out there who need advocates to protect them. I think a bit of discomfort is such a basic trade-off for the hope and possibility of protecting kids from the pain I endured.

I pray that the children of Pennsylvania don’t have to wait any longer for that one vote to be cast. They deserve to be safe in their classrooms. No more passing the trash – pass the Sesame Act!


Sharing my story to help end passing the trash

Sharing my story to help end passing the trash

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Senator Williams urging the House of Representatives to pass the Sesame Act

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S.E.S.A.M.E.’s president, Terri Miller, sharing her impassioned message


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Senator Williams’ office


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Two women – one goal!

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March 6

Education Action Group Interview

Victor Skinner, a communication specialist for EAG, just released an article that shares my experience of educator sexual abuse and my efforts to prevent future abuse in our schools. I’d like to thank Victor and the team at Education Action group for putting this article together and helping to spread the word about this troubling issue.

Read the full article on the EAGnews site by clicking here: Click here to read the article


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February 28

Another sexual assault victim speaks out… 10 years later

Honalee Gray has just come forward discussing the abuse she endured at the hands of her coach when she was 15 years old. Bravo, Honalee! Breaking silence is more important than I can begin to emphasize. Remaining silent hurts so many – ourselves, other children, and society. I know first hand how painful and frightening the process involved in deciding to speak out can be. I also know first hand how devastating it can be to remain silent, only to learn that your abuser continued to abuse others after you. The question of “what if I came forward sooner” will haunt me forever – it’s what propels me on a daily basis to speak my truth and encourage others to share theirs. I applaud Honalee for breaking her silence and sharing her story. I urge those of you reading this who were also abused by an educator to speak out as well. Feel free to contact me if you need any advice, support, or resources. Thank you!!

Click here to see story

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February 27


My goal is and always will be raising awareness about educator sexual abuse. I have written Invisible Target with the  intention of shedding light on the dynamics of how a teacher can groom a student in an insidious manner and cross the line that no teacher should cross with a student. I firmly believe that by sharing my story, readers will have a much better understanding of warning signs and red flags, thereby increasing prevention of this terrible crime.

I am thrilled to announce that Carol Benanti-Nowlin will be adapting Invisible Target into a screenplay. Carol is quite a talented screenwriter. She placed in the Top 10 in Final Draft’s International Screenwriting Competition out of 3,500 scripts. She is a warm, passionate warrior for telling the truth, and I could not imagine a better person to take my very personal story and transform it into something screen-worthy. We are going to work together on this project, and I know I am in for quite a ride with Carol!

The thought of working together with Carol on a movie adaptation of my story, and that it could reach a larger audience and help keep our kids safe, has me extremely excited.

Thank you Carol!!!

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February 24

Invitation to speak to House of Representatives

I am excited to announce that I have been invited to share my story and voice to leaders of the House of Representatives in Pennsylvania on March 19th. I am involved with S.E.S.A.M.E. Inc., which stands for Stop Educator Sexual Abuse, Misconduct, and Exploitation.

S.E.S.A.M.E. has been active with legislature to create the S.E.S.A.M.E. Act. Here are a few details about this very important act:

The S.E.S.A.M.E. Act seeks to put a stop to the practice of ‘Passing the Trash’ in Pennsylvania. Passing the trash occurs when a teacher accused of sexual abuse resigns, retires or is terminated and is allowed to quietly move to another school district without his or her new employer being alerted to the allegations of misconduct. This practice endangers countless students every year in Pennsylvania and around the country.

The S.E.S.A.M.E. Act will combat passing the trash with a three-pronged approach:

·         Require school administrators to disclose allegations of sexual abuse for each educator given a reference

·         Prohibit confidentiality agreements between the school and the alleged abuser

The bill also makes it easier for victims of abuse or suspecting co-workers to report a problem by reducing the mandated period for reporting abuse allegations to the Pennsylvania Department of Education from 60 days to 20 days. Further, it requires that registered sex offenders receive written permission from a district’s superintendent before entering school grounds.

I am proud to represent S.E.S.A.M.E. and survivors everywhere on March 19th. My goal is to have the act become a law in every state in our country. Our children deserve this protection!


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February 21

“Hard Candy”

During my recent interview, the reporter asked me how I respond when people say that sometimes the “victims” of educator sexual abuse initiate it and basically really aren’t victims at all. I wish I could have shown this clip from the film “Hard Candy”





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February 20

Interview on NewsChannel 9 – KTSM

I got a message yesterday afternoon asking if I was available for an interview with NBC and CBS news affiliates in Texas. I was really excited to have another opportunity to speak out to the world about the realities of educator sexual abuse. Two hours later, my Skype was set up on my computer, and I began speaking with Anoushah Rasta, a great reporter/anchor with channel 9. She dove right in and asked me some tough questions. I described my story and my thoughts about why this abuse occurred. I tried my best to use talking points throughout the interview. These interviews are tough for me. I look into a webcam and visualize that I am talking directly to a person. This takes practice!
I continue learning through these interviews how vitally important each statement I make can be. I always want more time, more statements, more viewers. None of this is about me or for me – it is for the kids out there who deserve to be safe in school.  I look forward to more opportunities to share my story and the many lessons I have learned on this journey.
As always, thank you so very much for sharing this website with others. Together, we can make schools safer for our children.
Awareness = prevention!
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February 13

Feature on S.E.S.A.M.E. website

I was looking through the S.E.S.A.M.E. website tonight, and I was pleasantly surprised to find my story, website and book featured on the front page! S.E.S.A.M.E. stands for Stop Educator Sexual Abuse, Misconduct, and Exploitation. This organization is the national voice for educator sexual abuse prevention. It provides support, resources, and advocacy for  survivors and their families. S.E.S.A.M.E. also is extremely active with legislation, focused on getting laws passed that would keep more children safe in schools across the country.

I first came in contact with  S.E.S.A.M.E.’s president, Terri Miller, years ago when I decided to speak out about my story. Since that time, I have become a member of S.E.S.A.M.E.’s speaker’s bureau and am always more than happy to represent  S.E.S.A.M.E. and other survivors who may be silenced. Terri has consistently been an amazing source of  support and encouragement every step of my journey. The work this woman can accomplish is mind-blowing. I often tell her I want to be like her when I grow up!

The reason I am so excited that she featured my story and book is simple: The more awareness, the more prevention. I feel like there is much more good than evil out in this world. The good needs to ban together to stomp out the evil. Thank you, Terri, for all you do and for helping me serve my purpose on this Earth.

Here is a link to S.E.S.A.M.E.’s site and my story:

Andrea’s Survivor Story


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